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养生的三个层次

monseigneur 2024-12-01 22:45:19 ( reads)

First layer, health. This includes all the known physical methods to boost health, such as good diet, regular exercises, low stress, access to quality medical treatments when demanded. Almost everything discussed in this forum falls into this category.

Second layer, happiness. This receives less attention but is probably more important, for how can a person be unhappy while at the same time be healthy? Fortunately, everyone can improve happiness by employing some practical methods. Play pickle ball. Take a walk. Dress well. Learn to embrace adversity and challenges as they come, learn to find joy in otherwise boring duties, learn to slow down and enjoy everything that life has to offer. It is even possible to guauge happiness by monitoring how much dopamine is secreted.

But the ultimate happiness comes from the third layer, that is, tranquility. Tranquility is the deep ocean below waves of happiness. While happiness is acquired by doing something, tranquility is acquired by doing nothing. It is the knowledge, or rather, the assurance that every moment of life, now or later, is complete, beautiful and empty by itself, requiring no any external conditions. It is complete, because nothing else needs to be accomplished or to happen in order to justify this moment as a happy one. It is empty, because tranquility is simply the absence of noise, the synonym of emptiness.

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幕鼓晨钟

2024-12-02 07:26:00

似乎觉得满足于当下的生活, 这可能得益于身念处的不间断的体会

cwang28

2024-12-02 08:14:53

这个我认可。 这三个要素是健康的基础

6thsense

2024-12-02 08:54:22

看了看,我还真到了第三个层次。有事情可做,很高兴,啥也不做,也高兴。LOL

湖西

2024-12-02 10:30:06

基督山伯爵说,这个世界上无所谓幸福,也无所谓不幸,有的只是一种境况和另一种境况的比较,如此而已。

湖西

2024-12-02 10:30:36

不设目标,在花园里漫步,固然惬意,但不会有历尽艰难,登上高山之巅,俯视红尘时的满足感。

湖西

2024-12-02 11:45:04

尼采认为无忧无虑、平和的生活是平庸之人的愿望。他认为快乐如同幸福,但这只是一种短暂的状况。

湖西

2024-12-02 11:45:26

对尼采来说,快乐意味着能够通过克服逆境和创造原创生活方式来测试生命力。

monseigneur

2024-12-02 11:55:34

虽然我对他了解很少,但是文章倒也提到了这种态度,只是这并非本文的主题,没有过度发挥以免偏题

pickshell

2024-12-02 12:50:07

哈哈,看来这养生的前提,要么得是有钱有闲老爷/太太,要么是和尚/尼姑:))

monseigneur

2024-12-02 13:40:55

这里是养生坛,你自己就发了很多养生帖,如果你要宣扬吃苦,艰辛,死里逃生,谁没有经历过一些

pickshell

2024-12-02 14:10:19

这又是你的扭曲理解? 凡事不要偏激走两个极端,过犹不及。

monseigneur

2024-12-02 15:58:32

当然是;我不是没吃过苦,而是根本没觉得我吃过;祝你健康

6thsense

2024-12-02 14:58:27

咱可以一边努力挣钱,一边心理修炼,两不误。

pickshell

2024-12-02 15:14:43

嗯,关键在成熟稳定的心理素质。遇困境不焦虑不逃避,以积极开放心态寻求解决的能力。

TBz

2024-12-02 10:48:52

第三个层次就是无为,听着高大上。

6thsense

2024-12-02 12:49:09

跟躺平还是有区别的,尤其是心理上是不是真能享受这种愉悦,其次是这种愉悦能不能长久持续。

pickshell

2024-12-02 13:03:32

躺平,还得无求无欲无为 与世无争。

简芳斋主

2024-12-02 18:33:53

“无为”是躺平doing nothing的无为, 还是没有执念的无为(四声)?别修成老年痴呆了,尤其阳气不足的

monseigneur

2024-12-02 11:18:51

谢所有回复;需要澄清的是,文章符合本坛养生的主题,并不代表放弃奋斗或逃避;恰恰相反,健康是奋斗的基础

monseigneur

2024-12-02 12:04:30

如果养生跟奋斗矛盾,那么需要质疑的是养生本身,但这是荒谬的

6thsense

2024-12-02 12:52:44

对,就是要一边奋斗,给自己的将来以保证,一边享受奋斗后的成果,这样心理上才能真正平静安宁。

山菊花

2024-12-02 11:22:12

黄帝内经:恬淡虚无,真气从之,精神内守,病安从来。

lucky_rain

2024-12-02 12:28:01

一般人到什么年纪才把养生提到日程上来?

lawattaction

2024-12-02 14:17:48

更年期。

越挫越勇2

2024-12-02 16:17:32

Very soulful! Happiness and Tranquility -- not that easy to

monseigneur

2024-12-02 19:20:21

You are welcome

cwang28

2024-12-02 16:22:49

我对第三层次应该是建立在第一第二层次的基础上才能感受到的

幕鼓晨钟

2024-12-02 16:25:00

我觉得是相反. 没有第三个层次为前题, 第一第二不得其法

越挫越勇2

2024-12-02 17:11:05

Agree. And it takes time and some type of suffering ...

6thsense

2024-12-02 18:34:15

我认为第三层次的获得主要靠读书和思考,对这个世界了解越多研究越透,越容易得到这种心理的笃定。

Charlotte100

2024-12-02 18:56:16

身体是奋斗的本钱, 病歪歪的如何奋斗赚银两?