惭愧，没读过他。听起来很 centric & dark，不读也罢 ：-）不过，很同情他这句话：

“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.”― Franz Kafka, The Metamorphosis

因为大家都有不能理解和解释自己，更不可能使别人理解自己，的痛苦时候。

不过，在当事者迷时，也可能会有旁观者清吧。