回复：don't say or do stupid thing in US to your wife

can't agree more with you. Chinese men don't think verbal violance is violance. my ex treated to kill me just because I spent $10 without his approval when I am earning thousands a month. I hide all the knives that night. The second day dinner time he couldn't find a knife and realized what I did. He just laugh out loud. He didn't realize how hard I have been hurt. This guy here should take the responsibility for his jail experience. It's caused by himself not his wife. I don't understand these people's logic. All of his experience is the consequence of his violence. The way he treat his wife is wrong. He had better remember this.