verbal abuse is

something that does not leave a physical scar on your body, but it does a huge emotional damage, especially now you have a baby girl, you would not want her to grow up under the impression that this kind of a treatment from a man is normal or well deserved.

I agree with single cat, you will need to go to a school to better your survival ability and especially in the US, most of the family custody cases, even family court judges, they are more lenient towards the mother most of the time.

most local churches or community provide helpful resources to mothers like you who need help. contact local asian american socities. i believe you will be able to receive the help you needed.