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APAD: Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice

最西边的岛上 2025-04-14 08:23:33 ( reads)

"Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice; Take each man's censure, but reserve thy judgment."  - The Bard 

It is a line spoken by "the tedious old fool" Polonius – chief counsellor to the villain Claudius - in Act I, Scene III of Shakespeare's Hamlet.

The phrase implies that it's important to be a good listener and accept criticism but to be cautious and deliberate when expressing your own opinions or judgments.

- Source: Google with editing
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Wise words from the Bard of Avon again!  

One thing I notice in a group environment with talkative people, especially after they consumed a few drinks, they tend to respond without listening, or they "listen not to understand but to respond".

I'm not saying myself is better (yes, I did have my own lessons 微笑), but observing the phenomenon could be amusing and annoying at the same time.  

I find that Maowi the cat is among good listeners, as he has two very big ears and is always very quiet and very observant when others are talking.  Kudos to him! 鬼脸 加油

Have a good Monday!

 

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硅谷居士

2025-04-14 08:54:41

Thanks for sharing. Good listeners are popular everywhere.

最西边的岛上

2025-04-14 09:11:40

So is Maowi ;-). & the words from good listeners r golden !

7grizzly

2025-04-14 08:55:07

Listening is a skill but to be heard I would kill :-)

最西边的岛上

2025-04-14 09:14:17

no U won’t;-) But no need 2 go far, just look around in the

最西边的岛上

2025-04-14 09:17:27

virtual world, some would lie/cheat 2 b noticed & heard ;-)

7grizzly

2025-04-14 09:33:44

哈哈,语不惊人死不休吗?It's human nature. Everyone has it. No big deal.

最西边的岛上

2025-04-14 09:43:36

yes, all‘ve some虚荣心, noBiggy. But jealousy ain't good, as

最西边的岛上

2025-04-14 09:44:33

"Envy is rottenness to the bones" - APAD 2024-07-13 ;-)

暖冬cool夏

2025-04-14 09:55:36

I am all ears today.It's said the best交流者is being a listener

最西边的岛上

2025-04-14 10:08:50

Agreed totally! 悄悄问:may I borrow Ur ears? just kidding ;-))

暖冬cool夏

2025-04-14 12:54:41

Of course,if mine hear better:))