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APAD: To have someone's back

最西边的岛上 2025-08-11 08:12:03 ( reads)


"To have someone's back" is a common idiom meaning to support or defend someone, especially in a challenging situation. It implies a willingness to be there for someone, offering protection and standing by their side.

eg. "We got your back" implies a promise of loyalty and assistance, suggesting that you can rely on the speaker to be there for you when you need it most.

The idiom originated from the idea of mutual protection in combat, specifically from the practice of fighters standing back-to-back to defend each other from attacks from any direction. It evolved to mean offering support, loyalty, and protection in various situations, not just physical ones.

- From dear Google
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I was born very shy and quiet, and would feel scared and crying when others talked loudly around me.

But growing up with boys, I learned boys' games: 打弹弓,扇三角,climbing up trees, jumping over walls, fake fight, etc. (but never was good at any 微笑).  Being a big sister at home, I needed to protect my brothers when we were young. I never swear and couldn't fight, but used my body to shield them from bad kids' fists.

That extended to friends at schools.  I still remember at high school time, me and another girl always walked together to and from the school, to prevent "stalking" from boys (ok, we apologized to the "boys" years later 呵呵).

I bet you all have been there done that: to have someone's back and have been covered back.

Cheers my friends!

 

跟帖(45)

7grizzly

2025-08-11 08:53:10

I was also stabbed in the back, figuratively, once.

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 09:01:27

sorry2hear. but those who stab others' back ain't friends

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 09:02:01

per APAD: True friend stabs you in the front. ;-))

7grizzly

2025-08-11 09:28:17

Awesome motto for APAD :-)

天边一片白云

2025-08-11 10:58:00

Familiar childhood activities. The photo makes me smiling.

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 11:20:03

yep, niceDoggyFriend :-) did U play PingPong, parallel bars?

永远老李

2025-08-11 13:02:42

想起电影THE ROCK里的一个场面:在酒店门口司机把车钥匙递给服务员,叮嘱他小心照顾他的车

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 13:30:27

visted Alcatraz b4, but never saw "TheRock". TheGuy sounded

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 13:33:47

very Mean. I'd lose his car and give him a "GM salute" ;-))

硅谷居士

2025-08-11 14:06:43

Thanks! Stand by somebody? Stand up for somebody?

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 14:56:47

close but not exactly? feel standBy-Up is 2 show solidarity&

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 14:59:27

support. Cover 1's back (=6) is stronger: to fight 2gether?

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 15:08:18

danubeB&暖冬,if U passBy, could U pls enlightenUs on this?Thx!

暖冬cool夏

2025-08-11 17:44:14

You have my back,西岛!(is this what u meant?)

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 17:59:24

Yes! We have each other’s backs then&now, moreThan stand by!

移花接木

2025-08-11 16:00:52

Now I give more shoulders and have more backs

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 16:19:29

Thx&yep, feel veryBlessed. The moreMYSJ friends theMerrier~~

danubeB

2025-08-11 18:28:20

That's what friends are for, right?

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 18:35:41

Yep& it takes time 2 find out: True friends r like diamonds,

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 18:37:35

precious&rare;FakeFriends r likeAutumnLeaves,foundEverywhere

方榫

2025-08-11 19:01:49

How about this one? "Don't worry, I've totally got your back

方榫

2025-08-11 19:03:07

like a super supportive, fluffy cloud."

方榫

2025-08-11 19:04:14

Didn't we have Lady White Cloud back in the fold?

最西边的岛上

2025-08-11 19:53:26

yes,we did! Birds of aFeather flock 2gether thru think&thin!

danubeB

2025-08-12 06:53:54

Right! Even when you're watching the six, you still need

danubeB

2025-08-12 06:55:07

someone to back you up.

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 07:27:44

But watching6 is back2back, the1 U r watching watches U 2. C

danubeB

2025-08-12 07:52:17

It's hard to decipher your coded message.

danubeB

2025-08-12 07:53:29

I suppose we're communicating in plain English.

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 08:01:59

“An idiom is a phrase that has a meaning of its own that

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 08:03:03

can‘t b understood from theMeanings of its individual words"

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 08:10:37

另外我觉得,APAD ain't justEnglish, but anArt, 每个读者都可以有自己的理解和感受:-)

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 08:11:36

"We don't see things as they are, but as we are." - 7grizzly

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 08:17:51

啊,there's 1 more reason I enjoy APAD: it's never boring!! ~~

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 09:34:18

thinkAgain, U r right! the more helping hands the merrier;-)

danubeB

2025-08-12 10:20:49

I'm afraid you've missed the point. Plain English welcomes,

danubeB

2025-08-12 10:22:19

even embraces, idioms. What's bothering me is a heavy dose

danubeB

2025-08-12 10:26:24

of shorthand (U, r, 2together, ect.) in your

danubeB

2025-08-12 10:36:18

communication with me.

danubeB

2025-08-12 10:40:22

Different strokes for different folks, I know.

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 10:52:37

Agreed. Variety makes the world goRound, so live & let live

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 10:47:39

Good point! I think the main reason is that

最西边的岛上

2025-08-12 11:02:18

Will try to do better when communicating with you, promise

danubeB

2025-08-12 11:04:47

I got it. Thanks and have a nice day!

jeffnaper

2025-08-14 05:51:25

A friend in need is a friend indeed. Got your back!