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APAD: The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world

7grizzly 2025-08-21 08:08:47 ( reads)

Meaning:

   A proverb that emphasizes the profound influence mothers have on their

   children, and consequently, on the future of society. It suggests that the

   values, beliefs, and behaviors instilled in children during their formative

   years have a lasting impact on the world as they grow into adults and shape

   future generations.

 

Background:

   This saying is often attributed to the poem "The Hand That Rocks the Cradle"

   by William Ross Wallace, published in 1865.

 

- www.phrases.org.uk, Google [edited]

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This reminded me of a story from the booklet The Wicked Wit of Winston

Churchill: When, in 1960, a reporter from the London Evening Standard asked

Churchill what he thought about the recent prediction that by the year 2000

women would be ruling the world, he muttered gloomily in reply, 'They still

will, will they?'

 

Obviously, dads have been jealous till this day, some to the point of

hallucination.

 

My training mate Eric, a 6-ft 40-something rangy white guy with a tawny mullet

and a week's worth of stubble on his face, was a brawny brown belt and usually

dominated the noon free sparring scene. He was a great guy, easy-going and

unassuming but he could act like a tweaker, sometimes. The other day, after

hearty rolls for half an hour, he announced deadpan that he had had it enough

with the tough athletic white belts and going to join the women's group as a

female ninja: "This is California, the land of the free. I can be whatever I

want to be. It's not important who I really am, but who I identify with. And

don't you dare to say otherwise." That cracked us up.

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最西边的岛上

2025-08-21 08:20:49

w/ a week's worth of stub 2 b a female ninja? LOL ~~~~

7grizzly

2025-08-21 08:27:51

I meant "stubble." Yes. Hard-rolling can be hallucinogenic:)

最西边的岛上

2025-08-21 08:29:53

I know, as in "Designer Stubble" :-))

最西边的岛上

2025-08-21 08:25:13

thought there'd b less wars w/ female leaders. but history:

7grizzly

2025-08-21 08:31:12

Interesting. Might be men tried harder to impress queens.

最西边的岛上

2025-08-21 08:45:44

not sure. say even in recent C history

移花接木

2025-08-21 09:36:44

Is "tiger mother" another Chinglish contribution?

最西边的岛上

2025-08-21 10:00:44

hahaha, tried that 2 but failed badly :-). My son:

7grizzly

2025-08-21 10:19:16

It could well be. My non-Chinese friends knew the term. Some

7grizzly

2025-08-21 10:20:04

admired the idea.

妖妖灵

2025-08-21 10:31:18

Clinton and Obama were each raised by their own mother.

7grizzly

2025-08-21 10:40:23

So was each one of countless ragtag and bobtails.

妖妖灵

2025-08-21 10:46:05

My point is:Clinton and Obama were each raised by a single

妖妖灵

2025-08-21 10:46:54

mom,but both became president to rule the world~

7grizzly

2025-08-21 10:53:58

I see. Moms, get rid of the dads. Now!

妖妖灵

2025-08-21 10:57:34

LOL. Of course not!I attempted to find facts to support your

妖妖灵

2025-08-21 10:57:45

APAD:)

7grizzly

2025-08-21 13:57:25

Thanks. I forgot the phrase right away after posting :-))

暖冬cool夏

2025-08-21 12:13:32

A funny guy who wants to join women‘s to ease himself out:)

暖冬cool夏

2025-08-21 12:15:11

中文里有一句“母亲的嘴是孩子一生的风水”:)a good one!

最西边的岛上

2025-08-21 12:25:59

Interesting, learned! Guess similar as "upbringing"(=家教)in E

7grizzly

2025-08-21 14:02:13

Good. Dads can wash their hands off whatever mess :-)

暖冬cool夏

2025-08-21 12:17:12

Make me think of --bite the hand that feeds:))

7grizzly

2025-08-21 14:03:24

Yes. Some ruling hands got bitten badly, I'm sure :-)

天边一片白云

2025-08-21 18:30:12

leaned some new words: rangy, tawny mullet.