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APAD: let it slide

7grizzly 2026-02-09 09:06:56 ( reads)

Definition

   to let go of grievances and focus on the present

 

Examples

   1) After their argument, Jane decided to let it slide and focus on rebuilding

      their friendship.

   2) I always try to let small annoyances slide so that I don't get stressed out.

 

Etymology

   The term can be traced to the concept of allowing something to move smoothly,

   akin to an object sliding without obstruction.

 

Synonyms

   disregard, look past, pass over

 

- englishdaily626.com [edited]

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[I got this phrase mixed up with 'let slip' which means to reveal sth.

inadvertantly in the course of a conversation.]

 

Even for deep cuts and irreversible damages, I'd choose to withdraw myself and

as much as possible let it slide in my mind because a chip on the shoulder has a

maintenance cost and constantly drains emotional energy.

跟帖(17)

最西边的岛上

2026-02-09 09:20:28

Wow again! It's my thinking started from yesterday 2 :-)

最西边的岛上

2026-02-09 09:23:45

Life is 2 short 4 holding grudges&nonsense, let them slide~~

7grizzly

2026-02-09 15:10:33

They're like tax for holding property.

最西边的岛上

2026-02-09 16:10:48

FYI: just picked up the book in library. Thx 7G!

7grizzly

2026-02-09 17:44:52

Enjoy.

移花接木

2026-02-09 10:31:16

Yes, life goes on

最西边的岛上

2026-02-09 10:50:25

横批:c'est la vie ~~

最西边的岛上

2026-02-09 10:54:46

Bingo!Here comes APAD 春联儿 4 the year of the horse :-) Cheers

7grizzly

2026-02-09 15:11:30

and it goes smoother as one lets it slide.

暖冬cool夏

2026-02-09 13:46:42

a chip on your shoulder-just learnt! Right attitude:)

7grizzly

2026-02-09 15:13:19

It's not their fault: some are born w/ a chip on their

7grizzly

2026-02-09 15:13:29

shoulder

妖妖灵

2026-02-09 14:27:20

That is right! I leave no room in my heart for unhappiness:)

7grizzly

2026-02-09 15:15:17

A great accomplishment. Wish I could do that.

JoyAnna.

2026-02-09 20:04:20

Does letting things slide often lead to selective amnesia?

JoyAnna.

2026-02-09 20:05:22

I think I am prone to that.

永远老李

2026-02-09 20:54:19

It will rain anyway. Mother will get married