My children are not going to these schools

Totally not worth the struggles. My daughter, the oldest, wants to go to the 

UNC system because it's guaranteed and it gives free tuition to kids from her

public boarding school. My older son wants to go to the community college 

to get a easy start, then transfer to the UNC system. 

Voila, problem solved. I'm happy they don't want to go out of state.

My expectations are the whole crops will fall into my own field.