We're not the same person. We are two very different people. But saying we still love each other is an exaggeration or it's not true. Basically you can't still feel the same after years of being together. And you can't help but feel annoyed by this person from time to time because he or she never goes away and never stops stepping in and invading your privacy!
QQ释然 发表评论于
喜欢你的讨论。我看过的对男女关系最透彻的博文。很多认同的地方。
一窗青山 发表评论于
回复 'elfie' 的评论 : 两个人在一起久了,就磨合成了一个人,自己怎么会跟自己谈爱情呢?
elfie 发表评论于
I'm trying to say I am NOT doing all the so-called maintenance on marriage.
elfie 发表评论于
I am doing any of that. I don't try to please my husband by saying good things about him. Neither do I put too much focus on him as a person. Years of living together render all these unnecessary. We never will be in another marital status. None of us care about love anymore, nor do we want to divorce.
We live in the same house, with the same children, day in and day out. That's it.
Why do couples need to feel beloved anyway? They don't. Marriage life is more than that. It's more about finance, stability and reproduction. Won't that be enough to keep people together? We often see people put a sign in their house: established in such a year, decades ago. Yes, established, like a financial institute.