菩提本无树,明镜亦非台，本来无一物，何处惹尘埃?

--The world is so, we cannot change it. we cannot change anybody.
i know i am still young, that i still cannot see through human beings and i still always want to change things, and prove i am different.
But, i also know for sure that i am no different from anybody else, i am just another woman on the earth.
we always get ourselves into these situations, that we "think" the situation is so, but it actually is not. it is just our imagination.
and i feel stupid now.