彩虹姐姐

我十五岁的儿子来德国读书是好事吗？

彩虹姐姐 (2007-07-14 13:57:19) 评论 (3)

　　　　儿子刚读完初二．刚上小学变为单亲家庭子女．历年数学科学等成绩优秀，也热爱历史地理，语文中等，英语会说不少但会写的很少所以考试成绩很烂．上重点高中没有希望．上初中以后，因为我出国了，他跟老爸，老爸与后妈半年后就去了别的城市，他就跟着奶奶．平时上课倒从没有荒废，课后马马虎虎完成作业就拒绝学习．周末就喜欢打通宵电脑．我在德国建立了新家，对方是一个人蛮不错的，　工薪阶层的德国人．我自己的德国的生活渐渐稳定．　儿子是我的心头肉，　我希望能自己看着他成长．　但不知道来德国对他的前途与心里发展是否里大于弊．　他出来了就没有回头路了．　我内心有点焦虑．　先生说他会权利协助的，但他平时都在上班也很忙．　儿子又处在叛逆期，对宽松的老爸比较没有怨言，对罗嗦的老妈我总有很多意见．　该怎么办才好呢？　　　

deflc 2007-07-24 06:46:32

如果你的家庭稳定,比较和谐,还是将孩子接出来,不要怕孩子的叛涅心,关键是慢慢让孩子走出单亲家庭对他关心少的影子,在国外也能培养孩子自己的兴趣,同时也让他能学习公平的对待别人.

jaydad 2007-07-14 20:20:23

sorry, missing part of the comment """ problem"
if he is younger, say less than 10, move him out of china to get wholly germinzed;
if he is older, say 20 or above, get him to europe or america to be globalized;
for right now, at the heat of his 叛逆期, i suggest you wait a little bit. Now it is a concern that he has neither dad or mom by his side - i guess you or your ex just have to deal with that, with remote control.
best wish

jaydad 2007-07-14 20:16:41

if he is younger, say 20, get him to europe or america to be globalized;
for right now, at the heat of his 叛逆期, i suggest you wait a little bit. Now it is a concern that he has neither dad or mom by his side - i guess you or your ex just have to deal with that, with remote control.
best wish