伟丽-拥抱女性自我

Love

我15岁的女儿曾经跟我说:“妈妈，我觉得外面没有适合我的男孩。”

“相信真爱吗?”我问，想起她九岁时曾用整整一页的篇幅描述她未来的伴侣。

“信！”

“太好了。为什么?”

“因为你和爸爸。但你们俩很特别。没有人能像你们这样。”

“嗯。如果我们可以，你不认为其他人也可以吗?”

“可能吧。”

我笑了笑。“当你正在成长的时候，有一个灵魂就在那里准备接纳你，就像你准备接纳他们一样。”

“就像灵魂伴侣?那是什么感觉？”

“他就像是我生命中的太阳和星星，而我是他生命中的月亮。我们在一起就是整个宇宙。”听到我提到《权力的游戏》，我们都笑了。“你的灵魂伴侣会无条件地爱你。他的出现会让你有宾至如归的感觉，你们都是双生火焰的一部分。但要想吸引他，你首先得相信他的存在。”

和灵魂伴侣在一起30年，感觉如何?

一种笃定的感觉。

灵魂伴侣是我一生中最好的朋友，他永远不会离开我，他接纳真实的我——即使是我不愿承认的并不美好的一面。

灵魂伴侣是一种完全的爱与连接的感觉。透过灵魂的接触，我们永远结合在一起——我们是一体——为了更大的利益。

灵魂伴侣是在寒冷冬天里包裹我的柔软温暖的毯子。

灵魂伴侣是世界上帮助我改善生活游戏的顶级棋手。

灵魂伴侣是最好的玩伴，把我内在的顽皮小孩释放出来。

灵魂伴侣是彼此的守护者， 灵魂伴侣是彼此的啦啦队，灵魂伴侣是彼此的电源， 灵魂伴侣是平等的。

你的灵魂伴侣将永远与你一起成长，因为他们是你灵魂的一部分。他们总在提升你，看见你最好的一面，爱你并培养你，就像你是他们的一部分一样。

人都会犯错，作为灵魂伴侣，永远不要责怪他们。你为你的灵魂伴侣展现最好的自己。

没有灵魂伴侣，一个人能幸福吗?

会，因为每个人生来都是完整的，但当你有灵魂伴侣在身边时，就像你在人生旅途上有了最好的旅行伙伴。你们俩轮流开车，一起设计行程。

生命是用来分享的， 人类的情感是用来分享的。有了灵魂伴侣，就会有更多的深度、强度、快乐、自由，情感更加丰富。

真诚地希望每个人都相信有一个灵魂伴侣为他们而生。相信你们会以一种只有你们两个才能一起经历的最独特的方式相遇并成就彼此，这需要信念。有了灵魂伴侣，生活就会拥有加倍的快乐和强度。

当我说Samuel造就了今天的我时，我不是在开玩笑。当我第一次见到我的男人时，我还是个年轻女孩，一个 20 岁的大学生，对生活充满梦想。在过去的 30 年里，我每天都在实现自己的梦想。我感谢神给了我这个人。

我的灵魂伴侣是一位安静的绅士。他的男子气概并不是在大声喊叫中表现出来的，而是一种坚实、踏实、佛系的禅道。他一直让我着迷。他一直在锻炼身体，他锻炼胸肌就像他栽培园艺一样，赏心悦目，滋养心灵。

每天醒来，我把脸贴在他的胸膛上，听着他的心跳，感受着我与他的心之间深深且温暖的联接。

没有什么是永恒的，只有我们的灵魂是永恒的。灵魂伴侣就是灵魂的陪伴。

我是你的伴侣，你是我的。我们在一起最好的生活还没有到来。

传递给大家满满的爱 

My 15 year old once said, “Mom, I don’t think there’s a guy out there for me.”  

“Do you believe in true love?” I asked, remembering she once gave a full page description of her future partner at the age of nine.

“Yes.”

“Great. Why?”

“Because of you and Daddy. But you two are special. There’s no one else like you guys.”

“Ok. But if we exist, don’t you think others can exist too?”

“I guess.”

I smiled. “While you are growing now, there is a soul out there preparing to receive you just as you are preparing to receive them.”

“So like soulmates? What’s that like?” 

“Like he’s the sun and stars of my life and I’m the moon of his life. Together we are each other’s universe.” We both grinned at my Game of Thrones reference. “Your soulmate will love you unconditionally. His presence will make you feel at home, you both are a part of twin flames. But in order to attract him, you have to believe his existence first.”

Samuel is my soulmate. Today, we are celebrating our 30th anniversary.  

How do I feel about being with my soulmate for thirty years?

It is a feeling of certainty. 

Having a soulmate is my best friend of life who will never leave me, who accepts me as I am — even the not too pretty side of me that I don’t want to admit is there. 

Having a soulmate is a total feeling of love and connectedness. Through a soul contact, we are forever binded together as one — we are one — for the greater good. 

Having a soulmate is a soft warm blanket on cold winter days wrapped around me. 

Having a soulmate is the top chess players in the world helping me improve the game of life. 

Having a soulmate is the best entertainer bringing the playful inner child out of me. 

Soulmates are space holders for each other. Soulmates are cheerleaders for each other. Soulmates are each other's battery power. Soulmates are equals to each other. 

Your soulmate will always grow with you because they are a part of your soul. They always lift you up, see the best in you, love you and nurture you like you are part of them. 

People make mistakes, but as soulmates, you never hold them at fault. You want to bring the best of you out for your soulmate. 

Can a person be happy without their soulmate? 

Yes. Everyone is born whole on our own, but when you have your soulmate by your side, it’s like you have the best traveling buddy on the journey of life. You both take turns driving the car. You both design the routine for the journey.

Life is meant to be shared. Human emotions are meant to be shared. With a soulmate comes more depth, intensity, joy, total let go; another layer of richness in emotion.

It is my sincere wish everyone believes there is a soulmate born for them. It takes faith to believe you will meet and magnify each other in a most unique way that only you two will experience together. Life is double the joy and intensity when you have a soulmate. 

I am not kidding when I say Samuel made me who I am today. I was a young woman when I first met my man, a 20 year old college student, full of dreams for my life. Now for the past 30 years, I have been living my dream everyday. I thank Divine for giving me this man. 

My soulmate is a masculine guy in a quiet way. His macho does not show up in a loud shouts, but instead in a solid, grounded, buddha-like Zen way. He continues to fascinate me. He has been building up physically, now he has grown his chest muscles like how he grows our flower garden! Pleasing to the eyes, nourishing to the soul.

Everyday I wake up and lay my cheek on his chest, listen to his heart beat and feel the deep warm connection from my heart to his.

Nothing is permanent, only our souls are permanent. Soulmates are mates for the souls.  

I am your mate and you are mine. Our best life together has yet to come.