有钱其实买不到快乐吗?美国一名精神科医师接受媒体采访,表示自己接触许多有钱人,对他们进行精神分析,发现他们其实有许多常人也有的烦恼,甚至还会因此衍生出其他问题。
精神科医师利柏曼(Carole Lieberman)接受《纽约邮报》(New York
Post)采访表示,很多人会以为只要够有钱生活就没问题,因为生活的压力会减轻很多,但事实上却不是如此。她表示,中产阶级忙着追求变有钱,但有钱人依然忙着追求要成为像卡戴珊家族(美国著名的富豪家族)一样更有钱的存在。
这些富人其实缺乏安全感,透过劳力士手表、劳斯莱斯名车等物品来象征自己的身份,想借此巩固自己在上流社会的地位。也因为富人之间其实是明争暗斗,不少有钱人常觉得被孤立、关系很肤浅。
除了上述的感受之外,有钱人也会有很多烦恼而导致一些不健康的行为,举例来说,因为工作的时间很少或甚至不用工作,不少人会觉得生活空虚、没有目的,而这样的生活就会让他们想去寻求更多的刺激。
有钱人的孩子心理状态也通常不太健康,在富有的家庭长大,爸爸可能忙工作、社交,妈妈则是购物狂,孩子通常缺少父母的关爱,虽然“可以得到任何东西,却得不到父母的爱和关注”。在这样的情况下,爸妈为了寻求刺激可能犯罪或发生婚外情,孩子也可能透过吸毒或酗酒填补内心空虚。
利柏曼认为,富家子弟总会找借口,认为自己不用负责任也不用遵守社会规范,但这些只是他们没有承担起自己生命责任的表现罢了。
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