爱美丽的家长会

今天下午爱美丽学校的parent meeting。我本来就准备让老迈去的，我要上班，但是想想爱美丽大了，还是应该去一下，就临时换了病人，和老迈一起去。

老师给我们看爱美丽的作业，笔记，密密麻麻的字，看得我就头疼，真是佩服这些老师。

然后给我们看了她最近做的一些测验，她说爱美丽很好，是每个家长的dream child。她说爱美丽是班级里唯一一个全A的孩子，特别是英文写作。这点要感谢老麦，从小给她念书，和她一起看书，现在这么大了，还是每天晚上跪在爱美丽床边给她念故事。爱美丽对写作和阅读的兴趣完全是老麦一手培养出来的。

然后我们也聊了一些班级里一些drama，女孩子们大了，会搞一些小集团，带谁不带谁，我发现以前爱美丽的几个好朋友现在都不一起玩了，孩子长大了，兴趣也会有所不同，虽然老师平时好像不说不管，但是其实她都门清，不佩服不行。老师说爱美丽平时会帮助老师做一些事情，她说尽量不要让孩子过早参与这些小集团的drama，如果没有很要好的朋友也没关系，就看看书，做一些自己的事情，而不是要强行去融入这些。这个深得我心，但是可能对孩子来说挺难的。毕竟她是那个每天需要面对这一切的。

走出来，看到爱美丽站在夕阳下等我们，心里有一种感动。忍不住过去紧紧抱住她。真的很感谢她做一个如此好的孩子，热爱生活，热爱家人，有一颗善良的心。

[elfie]

Mothers always worry about their kids, especially for girls.
It's not easy to be a woman or woman-to-be, that includes both the mom and daughter. It's called "the pain of growth", physically and mentally, for girls. It is foreboding because as a mother I have experienced it myself. It's not a joy ride at all. I wish she didn't need to go through those challenges that I had gone through. But I know one day she'll be a mother too, and probably someone's girlfriend or wife or being sacked by someone once or twice. I don't particularly feel worried about my sons'future. Because they have won the lottery by birth already to be born as males. Their paths are different. They're in the hurt lockers. Does it sound like the mother from " The Thorn Bird" ? Maggie was the only girl in the family. Mom sighed for her from the start: what could happen with this child? What good could it be to be Maggie?

[落花飘零]

回复 '严惠姗' 的评论 : 谢谢亲。我觉得爱美丽都是她爸爸一手拉扯大的，我忙着锻炼，哈哈

[落花飘零]

回复 'elfie' 的评论 : 儿孙自有儿孙福，我觉得孩子本性好的，以后都会好的，不要这么担心，哈哈

[落花飘零]

回复 'livinghere' 的评论 : 谢谢

[严惠姗]

爱美丽这张照片，有中央首长的气派。每次看见都想笑。

[严惠姗]

爱美丽有个好爸爸。

[清漪园]

"别人家的孩子"背后都站着别人家的父母。

[elfie]

Girls' confidence usually plummets at 13. My daughter is 11, turning 12 in December. She has all As and is good at many things. But I'm afraid it'll change when she enters puberty. It's a turning point, and negative on girl's psyche.

[livinghere]

好闺女