关于中国和美国的比较,一个发人深思的现象(二)

杨爷爷娶了比他年轻几十岁的杨奶奶，遭到了国人的唇枪舌剑，口诛笔伐。Hugh Hefner, 花花公子杂志的创始人，和杨爷爷同龄，现在(同时)有三个girlfriends(以前有过更多), and the four of them live together. There is this TV show about their real lives called "The Girls Next Door"... hot hot, oh yeah... Seems like Americans agrees pretty well with, at least they are not against this type of life style, and I've never seen any Chinese people accusing him the same way they accuse Professor Yang.It's great to self-critisize, but are we being too relentless on ourselves while too lenient on others?