上海男人是儒人的特例

胡祈建议：上海男人是儒人的特例

胡祈 二零零六年九月二日 於纽约

全世界可能都难找到上海男人那样服服帖帖地听从上海女子的呼唤，在笔者的眼里，上海男人是进化中断儒人的特例吧？

上海两大名嘴张越和蓝怀恩有关上海男人的争论好像很精彩吧，自己总是一知半解，也不愿意深入了解详情。

全凭着本人在上海抗战沪人八年的经验教训，肆无忌惮地武断下了上海男人是进化中断儒人特例的结论。

男人活到连上海女人的洗脚水也要准备好的地步，实在是男人的最光荣了吧？世界上有许多男人要干的事情，上海男人都跑去服侍上海女人了。

所以上海是一个不大有出息的城市，上海政治帮派不怎么样，上海人民思想文化文明程度也高不到哪里去吧？

上海男人是一种特有现象，反映了毛泽东过分解放华人女性的罪恶，也反映了上海男人儒化过分的奴才价值品格。

上海男人绝对不是光荣，也不可能是华人男性的榜样，上海男人应该是华人的耻辱吧？

上海是一个人种变态的城市。

[peterpan1668]

【I like to quote someone's comment to end my comment here. "一方水土养一方人。中国这么大，每个地方都有自己的“俊杰”，也都有自己的“败类”。"】－－

觉得楼下那位回答得好极了！笔者太偏见了：）

[Glider]

"上海男人绝对不是光荣，也不可能是华人男性的榜样，上海男人应该是华人的耻辱吧?" -- This is a typical bias and prejudice statement caused by personal feelings. It reminds me RED GUARD style statements in culture revolution. BE NICE. BE OBJECTIVE.

"男人活到连上海女人的洗脚水也要准备好的地步，" -- Not a TRUE statement again. I come from Shanghai. I haven't seen or heard any husband 准备洗脚水 for his wife unless she is sick. Well, even someone likes to take good care of his wife inside his house. That's totally not your business. If you stay in U.S. long enough, you know how to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.

"全凭着本人在上海抗战沪人八年的经验教训" -- I feel sorry that you had a bad expirence in Shanghai. Someone had a good time there and someone didn't. Just like we are in U.S. Do not be bias and prejudice caused by personal feelings. Do not go too extreme. Chill out.

I like to quote someone's comment to end my comment here. "一方水土养一方人。中国这么大，每个地方都有自己的“俊杰”，也都有自己的“败类”。"